1. ivorysorrows:

lil-miss-choc:

bonerack:

princessnecrophilia:

weeaboo-chan:

vhscars:

protest-resources:

50 Shades of Abuse Flyer - Canada
Use, redistribute, print. 
Click image and magnify for large version.

Okay. I understood all the flack Twilight got for being an abusive relationship. Because it was and it was being read by a very young and impressionable audience. But ffs, 50 Shades is an ADULT NOVEL. Iit is about a BDSM couple. Which - newsflash - do exist. It is a completely consensual form of dominate/submissive sex play. The whole concept of domestic violence and abuse is that one side exerts control over an unwilling victim. I don’t recall Anastasia, or whatever she’s called, protesting to Christian’s form of sex. If I remember correctly, she quite enjoyed it! So before you condemn a work of romanticizedfiction, actually consider it’s audience and remember that they are mature and capable enough to know the difference between reality and fiction.

so i guess you didn’t read the parts where he coerces her and the part where he continues after she has used her safeword and acts like a fucking creep whenever they aren’t having sex
it is the worst possible introduction to BDSM i could imagine
i know my shit okay

im hoping the people defending this book are 1. never getting into BDSM 2. not currently into BDSM 3. havent read the book bc i dont want to believe anyone is that fucking stupid

Let me
just
fucking
drop
some fucking
knowledge on you right now.
Wanna know the BDSM mantra? Safe, sane, consensual.
So let me explain why this book was devoid of all three of these things.
Safe - In the first few chapters of the novel, Christian Grey tracks Ana’s cell phone to find her at a club. Takes her home when she’s drunk, changes her when she’s so intoxicated she doesn’t remember him doing so,and informs her he will be keeping tabs on her for her own benefit. This is not the behaviour of a respectable Dominant. This is the behaviour of a power hungry, abusive asshole who really can’t take no for an answer.
Sane - One of the most important parts of BDSM is aftercare. Scenes can be extremely traumatizing and intense for the submissive. Aftercare is anything from petting to cuddling to holding to sweet talking, whatever degree of gentleness a bottom would need to pull them out of “subspace”. How does Christian provide aftercare? He submits Ana to a traumatizing first time spanking experience AND THEN FUCKING LEAVES. AND GETS MAD THAT SHE DIDN’T TELL HIM SHE WAS UPSET. He’s the one who should fucking know better! That, again, is not the act of a responsible Dominant. It’s the act of a selfish abuser.
Consensual - Did I mention he undressed her when she was belligerently drunk? Tracked her phone to locate her? He also buys her a new car despite her saying no countless times. Now, consent is important for any kind of sexual activity at all. Consent means informed, consent means enthusiastic. Informed, enthusiastic consent. This is crucial in a BDSM setting. Scenes can be extremely intense, especially for the bottom. What is Christian’s form of obtaining consent? Handing Ana a fucking contract highlighting all the things he wants to do her asshole and asking her to sign it. She was a virgin (Don’t even get me fucking started.) who had never before been exposed to BDSM. Entering in that kind of relationship takes a gargantuan amount of trust and knowledge so you know exactly what you’re getting into. Not reading a list of kinks on a piece of paper and signing your rights to say no away. Christian didn’t offer her resources, he didn’t offer her information. He gave her an ultimatum. That is not the sort of consent a responsible Dom/me would seek from their submissive.
Fuck. This. book. It’s written in a shitty way, it’s a terrible example of a BDSM relationship (ask anybody already involved in the lifestyle and watch them go blue in the face just thinking about it), which is already faced with enough prejudice and misunderstand, and it romanticizes and glorifies abuse.

And this post is going into my bookmarks, because it is beautiful.

What scares me most is the fact that people, misinformed and ignorant people, will now try to enter the community/find play partners with the dangerous ideas of what BDSM is. They won’t respect a sub, they won’t listen.
And that can seriously hurt people. People can DIE.

    ivorysorrows:

    lil-miss-choc:

    bonerack:

    princessnecrophilia:

    weeaboo-chan:

    vhscars:

    protest-resources:

    50 Shades of Abuse Flyer - Canada

    Use, redistribute, print. 

    Click image and magnify for large version.

    Okay. I understood all the flack Twilight got for being an abusive relationship. Because it was and it was being read by a very young and impressionable audience. But ffs, 50 Shades is an ADULT NOVEL. Iit is about a BDSM couple. Which - newsflash - do exist. It is a completely consensual form of dominate/submissive sex play. The whole concept of domestic violence and abuse is that one side exerts control over an unwilling victim. I don’t recall Anastasia, or whatever she’s called, protesting to Christian’s form of sex. If I remember correctly, she quite enjoyed it! So before you condemn a work of romanticizedfiction, actually consider it’s audience and remember that they are mature and capable enough to know the difference between reality and fiction.

    so i guess you didn’t read the parts where he coerces her and the part where he continues after she has used her safeword and acts like a fucking creep whenever they aren’t having sex

    it is the worst possible introduction to BDSM i could imagine

    i know my shit okay

    im hoping the people defending this book are 1. never getting into BDSM 2. not currently into BDSM 3. havent read the book bc i dont want to believe anyone is that fucking stupid

    Let me

    just

    fucking

    drop

    some fucking

    knowledge on you right now.

    Wanna know the BDSM mantra? Safe, sane, consensual.

    So let me explain why this book was devoid of all three of these things.

    Safe - In the first few chapters of the novel, Christian Grey tracks Ana’s cell phone to find her at a club. Takes her home when she’s drunk, changes her when she’s so intoxicated she doesn’t remember him doing so,and informs her he will be keeping tabs on her for her own benefit. This is not the behaviour of a respectable Dominant. This is the behaviour of a power hungry, abusive asshole who really can’t take no for an answer.

    Sane - One of the most important parts of BDSM is aftercare. Scenes can be extremely traumatizing and intense for the submissive. Aftercare is anything from petting to cuddling to holding to sweet talking, whatever degree of gentleness a bottom would need to pull them out of “subspace”. How does Christian provide aftercare? He submits Ana to a traumatizing first time spanking experience AND THEN FUCKING LEAVES. AND GETS MAD THAT SHE DIDN’T TELL HIM SHE WAS UPSET. He’s the one who should fucking know better! That, again, is not the act of a responsible Dominant. It’s the act of a selfish abuser.

    Consensual - Did I mention he undressed her when she was belligerently drunk? Tracked her phone to locate her? He also buys her a new car despite her saying no countless times. Now, consent is important for any kind of sexual activity at all. Consent means informed, consent means enthusiastic. Informed, enthusiastic consent. This is crucial in a BDSM setting. Scenes can be extremely intense, especially for the bottom. What is Christian’s form of obtaining consent? Handing Ana a fucking contract highlighting all the things he wants to do her asshole and asking her to sign it. She was a virgin (Don’t even get me fucking started.) who had never before been exposed to BDSM. Entering in that kind of relationship takes a gargantuan amount of trust and knowledge so you know exactly what you’re getting into. Not reading a list of kinks on a piece of paper and signing your rights to say no away. Christian didn’t offer her resources, he didn’t offer her information. He gave her an ultimatum. That is not the sort of consent a responsible Dom/me would seek from their submissive.

    Fuck. This. book. It’s written in a shitty way, it’s a terrible example of a BDSM relationship (ask anybody already involved in the lifestyle and watch them go blue in the face just thinking about it), which is already faced with enough prejudice and misunderstand, and it romanticizes and glorifies abuse.

    And this post is going into my bookmarks, because it is beautiful.

    What scares me most is the fact that people, misinformed and ignorant people, will now try to enter the community/find play partners with the dangerous ideas of what BDSM is. They won’t respect a sub, they won’t listen.

    And that can seriously hurt people. People can DIE.

  2. trekkiel:

    Okay, so this is half a project I’m doing for Padaleckiwhat for her birthday. Yup, I made this. Don’t get too excited now.
    SuperWhoLock AU! The Master, Moriarty and Gabriel join forces and decide to play a game. Soon, the game gets out of hand, and Gabriel and the Master want out. Moriarty doesn’t approve and kills them, before pushing his victims over the edge.
    It’s pretty crappy atm.

    I’m still working on it, and the quality is crap due to conversion stuff and me being impatient.

  3. vitaminsobsession:

fuckyeah-nerdery:

worthyourweightinfanfiction:

buttships-were-meant-2spooky:


this is the best thing in the entire world

she should greet jane as if nothing happened and see how jane reacts

she should avoid school the next day. And the next. Every night, she should put on the exact outfit she had on that day, hose herself down until she’s completely drenched and stand in Jane’s yard. When Jane is home alone, she should approach the window, staring at her. Knock on it if you don’t have her attention. 
That’ll get her back for killing you and trying to hide the evidence.

Ease up there, Satan.

Ease up? SHE TRIED TO KILL HER

    vitaminsobsession:

    fuckyeah-nerdery:

    worthyourweightinfanfiction:

    buttships-were-meant-2spooky:

    this is the best thing in the entire world

    she should greet jane as if nothing happened and see how jane reacts

    she should avoid school the next day. And the next. Every night, she should put on the exact outfit she had on that day, hose herself down until she’s completely drenched and stand in Jane’s yard. When Jane is home alone, she should approach the window, staring at her. Knock on it if you don’t have her attention. 

    That’ll get her back for killing you and trying to hide the evidence.

    Ease up there, Satan.

    Ease up? SHE TRIED TO KILL HER

    (Source: courtneyhatesjane)

  4. mistermurdocnipples:

    ask-putty-buddy:

    anthony-the-talking-clock:

    thelittlejewboy:

    staff:

    starting today all blogs without the following gifs will be deleted within 24 hours

    imageimage

    These are cute

    boop

    im very angry at the tumblr staff right now

    Better reblog.

    (Source: crybaybe)

  5. nonstupidname14:

    its-awesome-turtle-time:

    nonstupidname14:

    castleforeverx:

    YES.YES.YES. People need to realise this 

    This belongs more on Facebook than it does on tumblr.

    i think you’re missing out on some of tumblr then… but it should be on facebook too, it should be on every social media site!

    What I mean is that people on tumblr seem better at sympathy and know how to treat others but there’s a lot of homophobic people and swagfags who blame rape victims for what happened to them on Facebook.

    (Source: ikantenggelem)

  6. rejectnormality:

    candiedmoon:

    fencehopping:

    Thunderstorm cloud lamp

    I really fucking need this. I need like 10 of these over my bed with a thunderstorm soundtrack playing.

    want

  7. thebrokenarchangel:

Okay, so i just found a little “Sabriel shortcomic” i started to draw somewhen around october last year. There are about 4 pages, but only the first one was already finished - but i also still have the sketches for the left pages.
Sooo i think about lining and coloring the left pages, if there is any interest?
(sorry that this pages looks so sketchy… seems like i was a bit in a hury. the left pages will be done more neat)
next page: http://thebrokenarchangel.tumblr.com/post/92855086619/sabriel-comic-page-2-yay-i-just-finished-the

    thebrokenarchangel:

    Okay, so i just found a little “Sabriel shortcomic” i started to draw somewhen around october last year. There are about 4 pages, but only the first one was already finished - but i also still have the sketches for the left pages.

    Sooo i think about lining and coloring the left pages, if there is any interest?

    (sorry that this pages looks so sketchy… seems like i was a bit in a hury. the left pages will be done more neat)

    next page: http://thebrokenarchangel.tumblr.com/post/92855086619/sabriel-comic-page-2-yay-i-just-finished-the

  8. thebrokenarchangel:

Sabriel Comic - Page 2
yay, i just finished the second page! hope you like it so far.The next pages will have more text and panels of course xD Sorry for this short one…^^
I will finish the next page asap, but i have 2 exams in this week so it might take me a few days q___q

previous page: http://thebrokenarchangel.tumblr.com/post/92658266709/okay-so-i-just-found-a-little-sabriel

    thebrokenarchangel:

    Sabriel Comic - Page 2

    yay, i just finished the second page! hope you like it so far.
    The next pages will have more text and panels of course xD Sorry for this short one…^^

    I will finish the next page asap, but i have 2 exams in this week so it might take me a few days q___q

    previous page: http://thebrokenarchangel.tumblr.com/post/92658266709/okay-so-i-just-found-a-little-sabriel

  9. inspirationmeltdown:

"This, this is for you, Samsquach. I chose my side, now make it worth it."Have some lovely Gabriel. |D Not what I was going for originally…. then my girlfriend started playing sad Adam Lambert songs. Oops. I refuse to believe he is dead. :I

    inspirationmeltdown:

    "This, this is for you, Samsquach. I chose my side, now make it worth it."

    Have some lovely Gabriel. |D 

    Not what I was going for originally…. then my girlfriend started playing sad Adam Lambert songs. Oops. I refuse to believe he is dead. :I

  10. DON'T KILL YOURSELF:

    trekkiel:

    If your looking for a sign not to kill yourself, this is it.

    Please, don’t kill yourself, because there are people in this world who care about you, who will do anything for you, and they might not look like they care, but they do. They really do. You might think: “They’ll care when I’m dead”……

  11. theelusivebloggeur:

    That’s enough. I just saw a picture of a Palestinian child whose head was literally hollowed out. STOP posting these pictures. This isn’t even about me, this is about the nonconsensual exploitation of and disrespect towards the victims — the mothers, fathers, daughters, sons, husbands, wives, and so forth.

    STOP POSTING PICTURES OF THE INJURED, THE DYING, AND THE DEAD.

  12. hey I don't even know what they play on the radio anymore 'cause I don't like it the only resorse I have on music from now a day is my little sis

    Yeah, this years music is so bad, I swear.

  13. (Source: t-hunderstruck)

  14. No. This years music just sucked.

    Thank you! I hated this year! 2011-2013 was the best for music. Also the 1980’s.

  15. Am I the only one who thinks this year’s had crap music?